By Patti Johnson

Patti has been volunteering with Care for Pastors with The Confidante for Pastors’ Wives for 7 years after she and her husband received counsel from Care for Pastors as a way to give back to the ministry. She joined the Care for Pastors staff in January 2020. Patti is one of the administrators of The Confidante Private Facebook group for pastors' wives and is a regular contributor to weekly blogs. She loves to use her gifts and abilities to support the needs of the ministry. Patti has been married to her Pastor husband Keith for 36 years. They have 3 adult children who all to their delight live in Florida.

    I Didn’t Sign Up for This

    August 25, 2025
    Reading Time: 2 minutes

    It is good for us to read the stories that God writes on the lives of others. It gives us perspective, empathy, compassion and a different depth to understanding of how God works in the lives of others and in our lives as well. This book I Didn’t Sign Up for This by Sarah E. Frazer takes us into a life of unexpected turns while joining with the truths that God shows us through the life of Moses. I love this simple line from near the beginning of the book “Faith is not for when I am refreshed and renewed; faith is needed when I am tired and empty.”

    Description of book below from publisher:

    This wasn’t part of the plan. The story wasn’t supposed to go this way. I didn’t sign up for this. If you’ve ever had these thoughts, chances are that your story has shifted in some unexpected way. Perhaps it’s even turned totally upside down, and you’re wondering how in the world to move forward.

    You’re not alone. As author Sarah Frazer journeys with you through the story of Moses, you’ll find that even a hero of God’s people faced all sorts of confusing and painful plot twists too. Moses didn’t settle in the Promised Land, but He met the Lord of Promise. His legacy reminds us that even with a life crushed with disappointment, God’s plan goes forth, God’s presence provides, God’s promises are personal, and God’s purpose is never thwarted. As you journey through his life in these pages, you’ll discover:

    • How life’s plot twists and interruptions are actually the ways God is working
    • How God uses the darkest circumstances to proclaim His sovereign goodness
    • How to number your days rightly, recognize God’s hand in each branch of your path, and cultivate a heart of wisdom and trust
    • How to say goodbye to disillusionment and instead invite God’s plan, presence, promises, and purpose back into your heart

    Read this book in the quietness of alone time or share the story with a friend and learn of Gods plan in the past in the lives of familiar Bible people, in the present in our lives and those around us and gain confidence that God is in all our tomorrows working out the twists and turns for His plan in our lives.

    About the Author

    Patti has been volunteering with Care for Pastors with The Confidante for Pastors’ Wives for 7 years after she and her husband received counsel from Care for Pastors as a way to give back to the ministry. She joined the Care for Pastors staff in January 2020. Patti is one of the administrators of The Confidante Private Facebook group for pastors' wives and is a regular contributor to weekly blogs. She loves to use her gifts and abilities to support the needs of the ministry. Patti has been married to her Pastor husband Keith for 36 years. They have 3 adult children who all to their delight live in Florida.
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